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Sex - When He Says No
Submitted by Leigh Reeves on Tue, 12/02/2008 - 00:13.
We as women know that men always want sex. That’s what we are taught.
“Men only think about sex.”
So when he says no to sex, that can leave us confused and stuck blaming ourselves for his lack of interest.
I assure you, there is a logical reason that he does not want it and it will just take some thought, understanding and communication to figure it out.
Most men lose the ability to perform in bed if they are stressed out about performing elsewhere in their life.
If he is stressed because of work and meeting deadlines, it is possible that he is truly tired and not “up” to it. However, he’s not going to admit that he is worried about work. So, find a different way to relax him, get his mind off work and you will have him back in no time.
Alcohol can be a major killer in a relationship too. If he’s had too much to drink, chances are, he is not going to be able to perform, or if he does, it’s not worth it. So, try to limit alcohol intake or get it on before you go out.
Medication could also be a factor. There are too many to list, however, you know your man and what he is or isn’t’ taken. I would suggest trying a natural approach to sure the problem, alternative medicine. It is amazing and works better, without the horrible and lonely side effects.
If he is feeling sick or has some other health issue chances are, he’s not capable of spending time taking care of your needs. So, try to help him and get that issue taken care of so he is feeling alive again, mentally and physically.
Men worry just like we do, but they will never admit it to us. So of course holding all these feelings in is going to affect him in so many other ways.
Men want to be our providers and protectors, so if he is feeling inadequate in any way, he is ashamed and just can’t be himself.
The most important thing for us to do is to be reassuring and understanding. Don’t pressure him to talk about it or nag him.
Just be there for him and be supportive and relax him. Soon his worries will go away and he will take you in the bedroom and show you how much he missed you.
I don’t want to be a downer, however there is one other reason he will say no. That is basically when the relationship is coming to an end and he has found someone else, or wants to find someone else.
Only you know your man and your specific situation, so DO NOT jump to this conclusion first.