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13 Ways to Please a Man

Submitted by Leigh Reeves on Wed, 10/08/2008 - 02:16.

1. Ladies – We need to remember that men occasionally can not get it up for so many reasons. That just means that we have to work a little bit harder, rather than getting upset or thinking it’s your fault.

2. You need to tell him what YOU want and how YOU like it. Telling him how to get you off will not make him feel like less of a man. It will turn him on to hear it, and you will get satisfaction.

3. The arguments over cuddling need to stop. Men are different, and it is biologically proven. They want to pass out after the experience while our adrenaline is still going. Just try not to hold it over his head if he wants to pass out.

4. Men like it when women take charge. So get on top more, it feels way better and you are in control.

5. Experiment…Experiment…Experiment. Missionary is great; however there are so many others that are greater. If you need to, start with missionary to get comfortable, then move around and try different things.

6. Sex does not mean a relationship. This one can be hard. Women have a chemical released after sex which makes us bond to that partner. This is why it hurts a little after a one night stand. Just remember, eventually that chemical dies off and your feelings will go back to being normal.<!--break -->

7. Men love oral sex. We all know this. There are many ways to accommodate the act if you don’t like it. Just remember, if you are giving this up, you better be getting something in return. Otherwise you will spend a lot of times on your knees without any satisfaction.

8. Carry condoms!!! You can not always expect men to have them. Be safe and put some in your purse.

9. Talking dirty is great. Its fantasy, that’s all, he is not trying to offend you. He is trying to turn you on. If you feel offended, you should at least try it to see if you can understand why he likes it.

10. Be spontaneous! Try to do it outside of the bedroom. This saves sex from becoming boring and it benefits you and your partner.

11. Make time for quickies. We all have long busy days, quickies can help relieve stress. Meet up for lunch and get down and dirty.

12. Rip off your own clothes for once. Show him that you want him as much as he wants you.

13. Don’t be shy. Leave the lights on, show him what you have. Sometimes we feel insecure, however he has been watching you and he wants you. There is no judging in the bedroom.